All Roads Are Not Created Equal

Today I thought about a poem that I had to memorize in the seventh grade. I have not thought about this poem in years, but today, for some reason, I did. We need to understand that all roads are not created equal. Many of us make decisions that we later regret. Think about Lot. He had the choice to live in a beautiful grassy area or the land that God had set aside for Abraham. All Lot saw was the beauty of that area, but he never consulted God before he chose that road to travel down. God has a land that He wants to show you, but you have to consult Him on the way that He wants to lead you down. The grassy areas of life may seem easy, beautiful, and entertaining but those roads lead to death. Seek God today on the road that He wants you to travel. Trust Him and know that no matter what happens along the road that He is leading you down, He is keeping a watchful eye on you. In Christ, all roads lead to life <3

The Road Not Taken

By Robert Frost

Two roads diverged in a yellow wood,

And sorry I could not travel both

And be one traveler, long I stood

And looked down one as far as I could

To where it bent in the undergrowth;

Then took the other, as just as fair,

And having perhaps the better claim,

Because it was grassy and wanted wear;

Though as for that the passing there

Had worn them really about the same,

And both that morning equally lay

In leaves no step had trodden black.

Oh, I kept the first for another day!

Yet knowing how way leads on to way,

I doubted if I should ever come back.

I shall be telling this with a sigh

Somewhere ages and ages hence:

Two roads diverged in a wood, and I—

I took the one less traveled by,

And that has made all the difference.

References

Frost, Robert. The Road Not Taken. Poetry. Retrieved 29 Sep. 2013 from

http://www.bartleby.com/119/1.html

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