Janina B.

Everybody’s desert does not look the same. Abram’s desert did not look the same as Jacob’s desert, but both led them down the road of purpose. Deserts are necessary to teach you who you are and to instil lessons that only God can teach you. Deserts are not fun. You may lose friends, people may talk about you, people may betray you and they may seemingly be moving towards success faster than you are, but God has never taken anyone through a desert without making them rich in some way.   Abram gained riches in Egypt. Jacob became rich when he was living with Leah and Racheal’s father. Joseph became the pharaoh’s right hand man. Hagar met God. In the desert you met God and you find your purpose. The loneliness has a purpose. Sometimes all the distractions have to be moved so that you can see God. Although you may be in a desert place, you have to know that God loves you and that he has a purpose for your life.   You have to know that desert and deserted are not the same thing. The wor

I am so passionate about relationships and waiting for the spouse that God will choose for me because I know the outcome of dating the world’s way. The world’s way of dating broke my heart on more occasions than I care to talk about and it put me in dangerous situations that could have affected the rest of my life. People don’t take dating seriously. They look at a person, see that they are attractive, and allow lust to enter their hearts and minds. To put it in a different way people date to have sex, not to marry. In some cases people end up in a relationship and in other cases both parties move on to the next warm body that they can find.   The world’s view of dating involves living together before marriage, one night stands, and having sex before marriage. I’m writing this with the young girls that I work with in mind. I see them twerking, pretending to be pregnant, and putting on booty shorts to see who has the biggest behind. I’m scared for them and girls like them because th

Mom is one of the greatest gifts that God could have given to us. She’s passionate about us and she fiercely wraps us up in loving protection. She is our cheerleader and the one that understands. In the eyes of a child, mom has all the answers and she is the smartest lady in the world. No one can take the place of mom….. But what about dad? Dad is our strong and mighty tower. Noon is stronger than him and his love holds us together. Mom is important, but there is nothing like the love of a father. Isn’t it funny how we compare “being there” to the presence of a father? If you talk to most people about why they feel a certain away, they will start talking about the absence or presence of their father. We even compare the love of God to our dads. This can be a good or a bad things depending on the type of man that the dad in our lives is or was. The key word is the last sentence was man . Today I got the opportunity to talk to myself. No, not literally, but me in the form a young gi

I love honest Christians because their truth lets me know that I am not alone. The truth can be a scary thing to admit because it exposes and it uncovers. The truth can shame and it can set free. Some people judge you for your truth and others are grateful that you had the courage to step forward instead of being bound by shame. Your own anointing and your own freedom may very well be in the truth that you so desperately want to hide. God can use those thoughts, those mistakes, and those bad childhood memories to set someone just like you free. You don’t have to be the bad things that people have said about you. It is not their faces or their words that will break chains, it is the anointing that sets free and heals. I often tell the kids that I work with that their story will help others someday. They are more than what people have called them…..   Sometimes people need for you to look at them and see something different than what they have been labeled. They need for you to see g